We've Got This: Stories by Disabled Parents

Author(s): Eliza Hull

Parenting

The first major anthology by parents with disabilities


How do two parents who are blind take their children to the park? How is a mother with dwarfism treated when she walks her child down the street? How do Deaf parents know when their baby cries in the night?


When writer and musician Eliza Hull was pregnant with her first child, like most parents-to-be she was a mix of excited and nervous. But as a person with a physical disability, there were added complexities. She wondered- Will the pregnancy be too hard? Will people judge me? Will I cope with the demands of parenting?


More than 15 per cent of Australian households have a parent with a disability, yet their stories are rarely shared, their experiences almost never reflected in parenting literature.


In We've Got This, twenty-five parents who identify as Deaf, disabled or chronically ill discuss the highs and lows of their parenting journeys and reveal that the greatest obstacles lie in other people's attitudes. The result is a moving, revelatory and empowering anthology.


As Rebekah Taussig writes, 'Parenthood can tangle with grief and loss. Disability can include joy and abundance. And goddammit - disabled parents exist.'


Contributors include Jacinta Parsons, Kristy Forbes, Graeme Innes, Jessica Smith, Jax Jacki Brown, Nicole Lee, Elly May Barnes, Neangok Chair, Renay Barker-Mulholland, Micheline Lee and Shakira Hussein.


We've Got This will appeal to readers of Growing Up Disabled in Australia and other titles in the Growing Up series.


Product Information

The Age 11 March 2022

When Brent Phillips’ daughter was born, he and his wife were congratulated by a nurse because their daughter was not deaf, like them. Raised by deaf parents, he regarded being deaf as normal. It didn’t matter to him if his daughter was deaf or not. ‘‘ She was perfect either way.’’ Story after story in this powerful collection by disabled parents expose unthinking ableist prejudices about disabled parents, primarily that they are irresponsible for wanting to reproduce other human beings like themselves. Or, if their disability is not inheritable, they are asked, as Neangok Chair was, how they could consider having a child when they find it hard looking after themselves. Elly-May Barnes’ observation is echoed many times in the book: she says she has seen the effect her disability has had on her son, but it’s not been negative – it has turned him into a kind, compassionate young man who is open to difference. 

General Fields

  • : 9781760642938
  • : Black Inc
  • : Black Inc
  • : 0.38
  • : 01 February 2022
  • : 2.3 Centimeters X 15.3 Centimeters X 23.4 Centimeters
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  • : Eliza Hull
  • : Paperback
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  • : 288
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